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Executive Unschool publishes essays, written to start a better conversation. It’s a publication for ambitious women who have lost interest in optimizing a life that doesn't feel like their own.

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A Work Recovery Lesson: Leading with Self-Compassion After Big Moments

A Work Recovery Lesson: Leading with Self-Compassion After Big Moments

After a high-stakes moment, it’s easy to spiral into self-criticism. This reflection offers a different approach: evaluating your performance through pride, self-compassion, and growth—so you can lead, improve, and move forward without burning yourself out.

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"C'est la vie" — that's life. It's your c'est la vie spring restart.
Bree J Bree J

"C'est la vie" — that's life. It's your c'est la vie spring restart.

How good can it get? depends on how willing you are to let the heavy stuff go and make space for what's trying to grow.

This spring, try something with me:

Stop editing yourself. Stop looking backwards on what didn't work in Q1.

Stop apologizing for needing a fresh start.

The season is literally designed for a restart. And you deserve it.

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Momentum Isn’t Enough: Why Self-Awareness Determines Your Next Chapter

Momentum Isn’t Enough: Why Self-Awareness Determines Your Next Chapter

You can build momentum, set goals, and still find yourself repeating the same patterns. This reflection explores why self-awareness—not willpower—is the missing piece, and how deeper self-understanding helps you create aligned, sustainable growth.

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EP 126 C’est la vie this spring
Bree J Bree J

EP 126 C’est la vie this spring

Spring isn't just a season change—it's an invitation. Q1 has been rough for many of us. Work let us down. The world felt heavy. We carried burdens that weren't ours to carry. But what if you could give yourself permission to let it all go and start fresh? C’est La Vie…

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From Burnout to Momentum: Rebuilding Energy Without Hustle

From Burnout to Momentum: Rebuilding Energy Without Hustle

After a season of burnout or stagnation, momentum doesn’t come from pushing harder—it comes from alignment. This reflection explores how seasonal shifts, nervous system regulation, and intentional visioning can help you rebuild energy in a sustainable way.

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Stop Shrinking: Why Owning Your Authority Matters More Than Ever

Stop Shrinking: Why Owning Your Authority Matters More Than Ever

Even experienced leaders often soften their ideas to maintain belonging. But that instinct comes at a cost. This reflection explores why women silence themselves, how it impacts confidence and leadership, and what it means to fully own your authority.

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Ep. 125 Is it me? Or is business 'unusual'?
Bree J Bree J

Ep. 125 Is it me? Or is business 'unusual'?

Business is unusual and it's not just you that sees it. The work machine is operating exactly as designed. In this episode, Bree challenges the belief that burnout, exhaustion, and disillusionment are personal failures, revealing instead how modern work systems are built on extraction.

This conversation reframes the “rat race” and our pervasive work hard until retirement conditioning — and invites a different way of living and working.

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What actually holds when everything is shaking

What actually holds when everything is shaking

When institutions, careers, and systems feel unpredictable, our nervous systems search for certainty that may no longer exist. This reflection explores why connection, care, and love—not productivity—may be the most reliable compass during uncertain times.

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I was blasted for choosing peace. Here’s my response.

I was blasted for choosing peace. Here’s my response.

When the world feels chaotic, choosing rest can look like disengagement—but it’s actually how sustainable leaders endure. This reflection explores why recovery isn’t selfish, how nervous system regulation supports long-term impact, and why replenishment is essential for changemakers.

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Why pushing through isn’t working

Why pushing through isn’t working

Chronic work stress isn’t just exhausting—it’s physically harmful. Research shows most professionals experience significant stress each year, and many develop health issues as a result. Here’s why micro-recoveries may be the most effective way to offset modern work’s impact on your nervous system.

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Work Recovery: The Midweek Reset Your Nervous System Needs

Work Recovery: The Midweek Reset Your Nervous System Needs

Hustle culture teaches us to push through stress without pause. Work recovery offers a different path. A reflection on midweek resets, nervous system regulation, and one simple tool—pause before reacting—that can help you reclaim clarity, calm, and capacity.

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Choosing Courage Over Comfort in Uncertain Times

Choosing Courage Over Comfort in Uncertain Times

Courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s alignment in the presence of it. This reflection explores what it means to choose integrity over approval, regulate your nervous system for bravery, and build confidence brick by brick when visibility feels risky.

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What It Really Means to Lead With Integrity in Uncertain Times

What It Really Means to Lead With Integrity in Uncertain Times

Leadership isn’t your mission statement — it’s your behavior when it’s inconvenient. This reflection explores what it means to stop shrinking, speak with integrity, and live your values publicly, even when it costs you followers, clients, or comfort.

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Ep 120 Winter ‘26, Lesson One: Finding my voice
Bree J Bree J

Ep 120 Winter ‘26, Lesson One: Finding my voice

After years of compartmentalizing herself to “protect” her growing business, Bree reflects on what it cost her—and her community—to edit her voice, soften her truth, and outsource her authenticity in the name of success.

She opens up about leaving the employment law firm she co-founded, building Executive Unschool from a place of rupture and realignment, and choosing healing over hustle.


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